Sex Tips: Kissing and Hooking-Up Tips

For guys: "Go five times slower than you think you should when you start touching her, using soft, flat fingers," says Morse. Do not press hard, poke, or use your finger (or fingers) like it's a penis. It's not—trust us.

For girls: "If you are going into this handy lube-free, be gentle and start slow. The number one mistake women make? Just like lady parts, the skin on a guy's penis is super sensitive. Too much tugging = bad," Morse says. "Think of a hand job as a penis massage. You're trying to pleasure the muscle underneath, not tug the skin on top."