‘I’ve been married for 5 years with no children’: Lady seeks advice after husband impregnated another woman
A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to seek advice from Netizens after her husband of five years impregnated another woman.
According to her, she married her best friend and gist partner, but his mother’s attitude changed towards her when she didn’t conceive a child.
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Narrating how she found out her husband impregnated someone else, she stated that one day she came home and saw her mother-in-law dancing and rejoicing.
When she asked why she was dancing, the mother-in-law said her son had been blessed with a child and would share the details when he returned.
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When he got home, he told his wife about it and apologized.
Sharing her story through self-acclaimed relationship expert, Joro Olumofin’s Instagram page, the lady sought advice from Netizens.
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See reactions:
@kelvin_cleanheart: “This is really too much, I can feel her pains even though I’m a man, to a lot this may just be mere story but if you are in this woman’s shoes, you will understand the pains, the emotional torture from everyone around her, imagine the husband saying “if you want to leave it’s okay” really? Well, dear poster, if there is nothing wrong with you medically and your husband as well, then there is nothing to keep worrying yourself over, children are only the blessings of marriage, if humans marry right they will understand primary marriage is for companionship and once that is lost every other thing doesn’t work right. I don’t know how long you hope to endure this torture, but since it has cost you your peace and sanity I think it’s proper to let it all go, it’s never too late to start again, I don’t see this torture ending soon, how long do you hope to endure it? Before this leads to something worse, I think it’s safe to let it go, don’t even say any word to your husband or mother-in-law, leave with a clean and open heart, you deserve better, don’t be scared of the possibilities out there, your life isn’t tied to his. You can send a DM and we can talk about it if that’s ok.”
@mayokunfeld: “If one day, you came home and told your husband you were pregnant for another man. Do you think he would welcome you back with open arms and allow you to be with him? Or do you think he will file for separation or divorce. I personally feel like in Nigeria, married women accept things that their husbands would dare not tolerate if the shoes were swapped. Long suffering seems to be the thing.”
@gylliananthonette: “Plot twist, your husband is the one with the fertility issue and that child is someone else child.”
@just_milato: “I can feel the pain in every words she wrote. Women really go through a lot to keep their home. If u are reading this, always appreciate ur mum😢”
@asoebi_slay_age: “OMO…madam you sure say you self no go try outside? Lets all be happy for those celebrating cos what in the nake of wickedness be this? He didnt even stop at that, he video calls while you are there….toh
May God uphold you ma😢”
@edi4real: “Hold your head high and leave. The blessings of the Lord maketh rich and adds no sorrow. If your marriage is full of sorrow, it’s not from God. Your destiny is not in their hands, leave and watch God bless you with children with the next man.”
@pristinenatty: “Go out and try your own luck, who knows you might be lucky too like him, to have a child.”
@realprincessgloria: “Marriage has made you lose the common sense God gave you abi? Stay there and cry and continue writing to Joro since you don’t know your self worth. Something your husband won’t tolerate from you is what you are crying about.”
@double0george: “If you are reading this and seeking the fruit of the womb, God is coming. He will bless you for the delay, anxiety and mockery. You will give birth to your own children.”
@olutomiolufunmi: “Oh Christ! You will be fine. Please cry. You need it. I’m sending you love, light and God’s peace. 🫂”
@javin10: “Tell your husband to do DNA and then cry it out and pray very well if you to haven’t lost your womb 😢 a lot has happened and I pray God answer your prayer.”
@jasmineoflagos: “Have you tried getting pregnant by another man? Some people are not spiritually compactable.”
@gylliananthonette: “People that got married to a man and his family loves them, they dnt know what God has done for them 😂”
