‘I’m in love with my wife’s sister’: Man living in same house with sister-in-law seeks advice

A Nigerian man is in a quandary after developing feelings for his sister-in-law.

According to the man, who has been married for 9 years, his sister-in-law has been living with him, his wife, and their kids for six years. The man said not long ago his sister-in-law started seducing him with “sexy clothes”. He confessed that he has ended up falling for her.

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He said the 28-year-old lady is a boss in her workplace but he foots all her bills and doesn’t know if she has a boyfriend as she keeps wearing seductive clothes around the house and showing more care towards him.

He added that he has began to see her in his dreams and there was a night he almost went to her room and was almost caught by his wife.

Sharing his story on an internet forum, Nairaland, the married man sought advice; asking whether he should tell his wife so that they can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog lie.

He wrote, “I am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise. I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.

“I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can’t really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven’t see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her. As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.

“I can’t believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.

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“There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

“I don’t really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don’t really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀”