How some men unknowingly spoil their own relationships – Woman reveals

A woman, @wendyimoseporcholoinamen on TikTok, has called out men who break their own relationships and blame their women for it.

The viral video featured the woman expressing her view on men who refuse to take responsibility for their mistakes. She highlighted how these men tend to shift the blame onto the woman, even when they are aware of their own faults.

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She then offered advice to men, urging them to introspect and evaluate their behaviour towards their partners. She emphasized that if a woman’s behaviour changes from being loving and caring, it is crucial for the man to reflect on his actions and make amends, rather than using such excuses as a justification to end the relationship.

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Watch the video below

@wendyimoseporcholoinamen #typ ♬ original sound – Wendy Porch Imose Oloi Namen

See reactions below

@angeloflight67: “They see change in attitudes but forget what they did to make her change.”

@tinanda8: “was loyal to him but he cheated on me with another girl that he had introduced to his family. he asked for a second chance I said No.”

@martinstemitope777: “that’s their complain when they knew they did something wrong.”

@ada_obz: “people see your change of attitude but can’t see what they did to warrant that attitude.”

@nancyhairempire1: “we don’t nag anymore, we return the energy back asap.”

@prosperosalobo: “thank you for this question, God bless you ma, they don’t ever agree that they are wrong.”

@kara7s: “very true. She is happy then you come along pretending to love her and then you say she’s too much. Better you stop the game.”

@masanta22: “he will also say she doesn’t respect.”

@use1199956: “men sha to be in man house is not easy BCS of man character may God continue to bless all woman.”

@userboldebby: “some will even tell you that u are overthinking everything that u should let it slide.”