Give Him the Best Orgasm of His Life: 6 Practical Tips From a Real Guy

Men's orgasms may never be as intense as the screaming, multiple orgasms that many women are capable of. But that doesn't mean that they can't be better than average or even earth–shattering, mind–blowing, toe–curling, etc.

Just like with women, there are psychological, emotional and physical things that contribute to the quality of a man's orgasm. Every guy is, of course, different, but here are 6 tips that will up the intensity that don't involve cough drops, donuts or or other bizarre gimmicks.

1. Know When It's Coming

Get to know your partner and learn the tell–tale signs. Is there a twitch? A sudden stiffening? Heavier breathing? If you can learn to tell when his orgasm is coming 'round the bend, you'll be able to make it more awesome when it happens.

2. Talk To Him

One thing that can make a guy's orgasm kind of a bummer? Feeling like it happened too suddenly and it wasn't that big a deal when it did. Tell that you really want it to happen. Right now. Let him know how hot it is for you when he comes. Just knowing that might help him to really let go in a way he normally wouldn't.

3. Tell Him Where

Let me be perfectly clear and say that you absolutely do not have to emulate porn in order to satisfy your guy. But if you're comfortable with it (or even turned on by it), inviting him to come somewhere on you is... really nice. Why? It's hard to say, but here's my theory: Many men still have residual insecurities from their adolescence. We worry that women think our junk (and what comes out of it) kind of... gross. And it's embarrassing.

So, maybe telling us that you want it on you helps us to put those fears aside and makes us feel like sexy, confident, grown men. In any case, we like it. If you actually are grossed out by the prospect, or just aren't comfortable with it, that's fine. Just don't do it. Telling him that you want it inside you (or inside a condom, more likely, but the sentiment is what's important) will do the trick, too.