Flirting 101: The Dos and Don'ts of Getting Guys to Notice You

Flirting with your eyes is one of the easiest ways to test if a guy is into you. Patti Stanger, of The Millionaire Matchmaker, calls it the five-second flirt. "It's basically finding a guy you have an attraction to, whether it's at a bar or a party, and holding that gaze," she says. "If he doesn't come over, he's either taken, involved with somebody else, in a relationship or married. Or he could be hitting for the other team. Or he is passive-aggressive—he wants you to choose him, which is the worst kind of guy. Nobody wants that guy."